Living simply

Happy Monday everyone!

How are you doing on the magnificent Monday night? Did you have a good day? I did. Once again, I think I overdid it a tad, but as soon as my body started telling me to get off my feet, I did.

I ventured out to Michaels today to pick up some DMC floss for a cross-stitch sampler I’m making for my daughter-in-law to be and my son. It’s been a moment since I’ve cross-stitched, but I really wanted to do something extra special for my loves, so, I went to pick up the floss that I ordered. I didn’t have to do much to get it. I ordered it online then went into the store and picked it up. Then I stopped at Stater Bros. on my way home to pick up the ingredients to make John some yummy chicken and dumplings. Now that I finally have my own kitchen after 6 long months, I wanted to cook. It felt good to make him a hot meal, but afterwards, I did have to come and put my feet up.

Let me tell you, this surgery has really kicked my booty. I’ve never been this out of it for this long after any surgery. I suppose getting older means not jumping back in the saddle as quickly as I have in prior years. I suppose the last big surgery I had was back in 2009. I was just barely 40 then. Anyway, it felt amazing to cook in my own kitchen and it was wonderful having mama Sandy over for dinner too. It was super casual, and I mostly sat on my chase lounge and enjoyed talking with Sandy and John.

I spent a little time daydreaming about my one-day all-seasons room with my brother Jimmy. I sent him some photos of what I like and it’s amazing how much he and I are alike. I’m hoping when he comes out for a visit, he can give me some good pointers on how to proceed.

Here’s what I sent him and thank goodness; he can see the same vision for my little addition as I can.

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I don’t think I’d put a bed in the all-seasons room. Instead, I’d put a couch. For sure I’d have my fireplace or wood burning stove. Lots of windows would make the space so incredible with all my wonderful trees God’s gifted me to care for.

I also like the idea of building she-shed/guest house. It would be small, but two story with lots of windows. Below is what I came up with.

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I wouldn’t put in a kitchen, instead, I’d make it a wall of books. I love the desk idea for writing, only thing I’d change there would be to put in a window so I could look outside. This space isn’t all that big, but it sure is cozy and inspiring.

Jimmy had to say goodnight when I told him on the side of my yard where my fruit trees are, I want to build the following:

Maybe I paint it instead. Smaller scale of course. You see, I have this little side yard that’s its own space. It’s got this fun little brick pathway that runs through it, and the bricks scream out yellow brick road.

Something fun might just be in order for this little pathway. Thinking of something like this:

And right before you enter into this space, I’d love to make a sign that says something like this:

I’d post this right outside the side gate’s gate that takes you to a maybe yellow brick road.

It’s been a long time since I’ve lived simply and dreamt. Being able to daydream brings out so much creativity, even if I never create the spaces I’m dreaming of now, one day I’ll create something fun and whimsical.

Like my friend Kimberly says, “The adult world is such a serious place… I think it’s really important to carve out spaces for fun in the landscape of our lives.” Spoken like a true author and creative person. I’m so grateful to have her in my life. She’s amazing and so uplifting. She even gave me the idea of figuring out how to get a tin man for my space. Maybe even a lion, but we’ll have to wait and see. I still love the idea of creating the Jungle Book backyard. Heck, who says I can’t do both.

Anything is possible with a dream and a lot of hard work.

Living simply for me takes effort. I’m not used to being down for this long of a period of time, however, I will say, it’s teaching me to really be in the moment. I’m learning to enjoy the quiet. I’m excited to sew again and I’m excited to keep creating, even if it’s only in my dreams.

John and I are so over having stuff. We are embracing home life, and we are beyond grateful to have a home of our own. It really does feel so good to look around our home knowing we can create not only the things we want, but the ability to create memories along the way.

Since being in this home, and it’s only been a week, I am more relaxed and I’m dreaming again. Dreaming of all the possibilities and being happy with the way things are. I might not have a lot, but I sure do have everything. I have a roof over my head. Food in the fridge. A man who loves me unconditionally. I have amazing kids and bonus kids. I have friends. I have a family whom I adore. I have Molly and Oreo. The other things I have, well, they’re just that. Things.

All my dreams have come true, everything else will be a bonus, or icing on the cake.

Having this home has brought me even closer to my creator. He opened the door for John and me to buy a home together. He’s blessed us with more than we ever thought possible. He’s always provided. I am so humbled and appreciative of all the blessings He’s bestowed upon us. I hope I never get so busy that I forget to thank Him for His guidance in my life.

Without, I know I wouldn’t be here today. Without Him, my life would be spiraling. He is always there, holding His hand out. Sometimes I fail to see it, but I’m quickly reminded He is always ready to carry me through whatever life is handing me.

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I am blessed. I am learning to live simply, and I am loving the journey. Despite all the ups and downs of life, the best way for me is to keep God in the forefront of my life. Pray for His guidance and strength and always ask for help to live a life that brings Him the glory He deserves.

Living simply is a great way to live. My surgery has given me the best opportunity to embrace a simpler way of life. I wouldn’t trade it.

I am grateful. I am blessed. I am thankful for another day of life. If tomorrow never comes, I can honestly say, God has always been there for me.

Well guys, thank you for stopping by and taking the time to read tonight’s blog. I appreciate you all so very much. j

Until next time, don’t forget, Love Life++ Hugs.