The Pilot

Happy Friday everyone!

How are you all doing on the fabulous Friday? All is crazy here, but that’s okay, I woke up with a plan in mind and fire in my eyes. So, what are your plans for the weekend? Shoot me a text or drop me a comment, I’d love to hear from you.

Yesterday was such a nice day. I was able to work on some really important things, and, I accomplished most of them, well, except for the crafts I need to finish for the upcoming craft fair. I’m almost beginning to wonder if God is leading me in a different direction because every time I get things in motion I seem to get a wrench in my giddy up.

While I was driving home yesterday, I had crossed over the causeway that separates the two lakes, main lake and east. It’s so beautiful watching the sun rise on the water. The shimmering of light, the sparkle of the water. The calmness along with the shine that permeates, almost like freshly cleaned glass. Oh how blessed I feel every morning being able to see the water. I’m even more blessed to live in a place that gives me that opportunity. I’m thankful for this journey and for Him allowing me to have a home here at the lake.

Last night I got some scary news, at least in the moment the news I got terrified me. I went into panic mode and just started on this journey of needing to get things done. I do that when I allow myself to become so overwhelmed and my brain becomes foggy.

Then when I went to bed, I begged God to give me strength and understanding, the one thing John’s been praying for. He suggested I pray for the same but I told him I’ve been praying for answers and signs that we are on the right path.

When I woke up this morning, after feeding the pups and cleaning up the yard of doggy poo, I grabbed my cup of coffee and joined the pups on the couch. I opened my email and received the following message:

“On the way home from one trip, things got real. The air was whooshing, the lights were flickering, and then the pilot came on the speaker:

“Flight attendants, please take your seats.”

Not exactly what you want to hear midair. 

I double-checked the boys’ seatbelts and tried to play it cool, but my stomach was in free fall. I found myself wondering, is this normal? Are we okay?

And that’s when it hit me:
The pilot could see what I couldn’t.

Maybe there was a storm we were flying around or a pocket of wind to climb through. Either way, he knew the path home. My only job was to stay buckled and trust the one who could see what was coming.

The same goes for our daily life, God can see what’s coming.

He’s the Pilot.

Maybe lately it’s felt like your week-to-week is more chaotic than calm. The to-do list is full. And peace? …There is not so much of it.

I’ve been there too, Dawn. Juggling calendars, trying to fit all the pieces in, wondering how to “do it all” and still have room for God.

That’s when I realized: God isn’t asking us to do more. He’s asking us to plan with Him.

He cares about the structure of your week just as much as the vision for your business. When we commit our plans to Him, He establishes the work of our hands. (Proverbs 16:3)

And if you’re in a place where the plan itself feels fuzzy — like you have a dozen ideas but no direction — that’s often just God inviting you back to the basics.

When you stop chasing “all the things” and start listening for the one thing He’s actually asking you to do, peace follows. Always.

And maybe, just maybe, this is your reminder to build differently this time, build with His kingdom at the forefront.

You might not see the full flight path yet. But you can trust the Pilot.“-Stefanie Gass

I believe I not only got the signs, but the strength to let go and let God.

I have been asking God to help me let go and let Him. I’ve tried to breathe in, breathe out. I’ve tried Mel Robbins 5 second rule. Everything works, but in His time.

This morning, I realized my prayer has been answered. I might not have the answer as to what’s next. I might not have the answer I wanted or was expecting, but I have the answer as to strength and understanding. I have the calm of peace knowing that whatever happens or wherever we go, it’ll all work out. Who knows, maybe we’ll end up with our forever home after all.

After the email, I received a call with some pretty encouraging news. Then the quote below popped up on my feed:

When I saw the quote, I knew for certain, God’s hand is in everything we do, that is, if we ask and are willing to receive. I’ve been praying for years that through my story and through my blog, I just want to help others. Even if I only help one person find their voice or avoid the pitfalls that I’ve faced, then it’s all worth it.

My friend Shawna gave me a wall plaque as a birthday present this year, it says, “Someone out there needs your writing.” I have this reminder sitting right on my desk and I look at it every day and smile, because my friend has faith in me as a writer. Most of my friends have faith in my writing. Just knowing that is a blessing. I am humbled

I am on the right path. My test as far as I can tell is, not only having patience, but having faith in Him that no matter what happens or how things turn out, He has a plan for John and me.

I have a friend who will remain nameless because I want to respect her privacy. She’s a very private person, but she knows who she is. She checks in on me all through the week and her texts are always encouraging. This morning was no different. She was the first call John and I made last night when poop hit the fan. We got some very disturbing news from a person who was trying to strongarm us because of their negligence. UGH, some people are butts.

My morning message was awesome: “Good morning. It’s going to be a great Friday…did you know that today is National No Stress Day? It is. I just made that up! Haha.”

Not only did her text make me smile, I had to giggle to, and yes, absolutely we need to declare a National No Stress Day! We all need one of those and my thought is, even though we most likely will never get a National No Stress Day, we can make every day a little less stressful if we implement certain practices and those I’ll leave in your hands since I don’t know your circumstances.

For me to elevate stress, or have a lot less stress, I’m holding on tight to the letting go letting God mindset. It works for me. He reminded me of this and His reminders came in droves this morning. I am grateful.

I know I’ll still have those days where my mind spins and I know I’ll need a slap in the face reminder to fall back into a healthier mindset and way of thinking, but the more I focus on

“When you stop chasing “all the things” and start listening for the one thing He’s actually asking you to do, peace follows. Always.”

I woke up with peace in my heart. Sure, I still overthink things and I’m sure I’ll still second guess myself, but I know when I stop chasing the peace will be apparent. I might not see where my journey will take me, but He does.

Who’s your pilot? I know who mine is, so if you see me struggle. If you see me spinning, remind me of how wonderful the day will be if I can remember, it’s a National No Stress kinda Day.

Well guys, I’m ready for some sleep. Thank you for stopping by. Sleep well and until next time, don’t forget, Love Life++ Hugs.